Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Changing of Profile Picture from Mark Zukerberg’s link.

Yes I’m one of the persons who changed his profile picture by following Mark Zukerberg’s link which indicated that we support Digital India.  Moreover the tricolor foreground acted as a catalyst for people like me to make use of the link for changing the profile pictures.  The first thought that came to my mind and to so many others (more than 2 million I believe) was if Mark Zukerberg can display his profile picture with the tricolor in the foreground then why can’t we ?  And moreover the idea of supporting Digital India was not bad either.
But very soon we started seeing posts shared by few, undoubtedly wiser, people proving that by emulating Mark Zukerberg’s profile picture we have unknowingly voted for facebook.com and its other associates (around 50 of them) in ruling the Internet world and have voted against free internet for the world.
If this is true then the  regulatory authorities need to take note of this and Mark Zukerberg should be taken to task.

He should either apologize to all of us if he has taken us for a ride or the regulatory authorities should take a strong note of it and should consider our so called blind votes to be null and void. 

The Day of Reckoning 17th June 1987 (My interview for PRT)


In the morning of 17th June ’87 I woke up pretty early.  Mr. Singh’s brother-in-law of Kanpur had knocked at the door as per the fixed schedule.  He had come with a black turban.  As I was already finished with bathing and was dressed up it took about 5 to 10 minutes to tie the turban.  I had thanked him and after taking my breakfast had left for DPS Korba by an auto rickshaw.  It had taken me less than ½ an hour to reach the lush green temporary township of Pragati Nagar of NTPC Korba which was situated across the huge Darri Barrage. The school was spread pretty lavishily in a campus of more than 8 to 10 acres of land. 
On reaching the campus I could see many other candidates waiting for the interview.
I had reported to the office staff and then had taken my seat in the lounge.
On looking around I had noticed various candidates moving around or seated, like me, along with their parents or spouses.  Next to me was seated a young man in tight trousers and shirt.  He was well built and had long hair. I had looked at him and had enquired with a smile, “Where are you from and for which subject have you come ?” He too had given me a big smile and had replied in Hindi, “No English, Only Hindi. I’ve come for Music and am from Bihar.  My name is Ajay Jha.”

28.09.2015
From further talks I had learnt that he too had arrived yesterday and had reached the SCHOOL directly and was putting up in one of the classrooms.
I was provided with a questionnaire which had contained around 20 questions based on Grammar and I was asked to write my views on why English should be taught in India and what are the difficulties in doing so ? I was extremely happy to answer the questionnaire.  Grammar questions were based on speech, voice, modals, articles, tenses and parts of speech.  Subjective based question was from my special paper, in PG i.e., “Teaching of English as a Foreign Language.” So I believe my response must have been good.
After about an hour or so around 10:00 am I was called for being interviewed in the Principal’s chamber.  Later I had learnt that the Staff Selection Committee hand included Mr. R.S. Lugani, Principal of DPS R.K. Puram as well as nominee of Chairman, DPS Society, Mr. Mahesh Bareja, Principal of DPS Korba, Mr. Thakur, DGM, NTPC, GM of NTPC Korba and Mrs. Radha Ratnam as subject expert.

I was asked by Mr. R.S. Lugani, “Please be seated Mr. Thaper and introduce yourself.” I had responded with a smile and had taken my chair and had said, “Sirs and Mam I’m Sukhwant Singh Thaper, though I have come from Vishakapatnam, basically I belong to Jeypore Odisha which is a very remote place.  I was born in Nawrangpur which is about 10 Kms from Kalahandi where people even in todays scenario die of starvation.  I had completed my class X in 1979 and it was around 1983 that one of the branches of DPS was opened in Damanjodi.  At that time my classmates and I had regretted for not having got the opportunity for studying in a DPS.  But at present I’m feeling lucky that I may get an opportunity to teach in a DPS.   I have done my PG in English from Ravenshaw College, Cuttack. I love reading and play cricket, table tennis and chess.”
Mr. R.S. Lugani had said, “How’s your brother-in-law now ?” I was pretty impressed and had immediately felt to have built a close bond with him.  I had said, “Sir, he is doing well and thanks a lot for asking this.”
Mr. Mahesh Bareja had said, “You don’t have any teaching experience”, I had responded by saying, “Sir, I have been teaching my juniors right from the time I was in class X and while persuing my PG in Cuttack I had had the opportunity of guiding a girl Rini Prusty in her classes III & IV, and I feel I can teach the children.”  Mr. Lugani had asked, “Besides English which subjects do you think you can teach and upto which level ?” I had said, “Sir, except Sanskrit I can teach all other subjects upto class X but I would prefer to teach only English.”
Mr. Thakur had asked, “Do you have anyone known to in this area or not ?”
I had said, “I’m totally new to this place.  I know of one Mr. Chatwal uncle whom I had met in Vellore.  Probably he lives in Korba but I don’t know his address.”
Mr. R.S. Lugani had then said, “Mrs. Ratnam, please go ahead.”
Mrs. Ratnam who was sitting quite all this while had given me one of the most beautiful, assuring, genuine smiles I had ever seen and greeted me by saying, "Hello Sukhwant ! All this while I was listening to you, I was wondering about your pronunciation and accent are excellent."
"You come from a very remote place.  How did you manage to pick up correct pronunciation and accent without picking up any regional impact ?”
The sparkle of her smile was matching with the sparkling diamonds that she was wearing in the form of earnings and on her nose.
I had responded and had said, “Thanks mam for your compliment.  This has been due to the blessings of my teachers, keen interest of my parents to enable my sister and me to learn English in spite of the fact that they themselves are not able to do so and exposure to BBC radio and love of reading English books.”
Mrs. Ratnam had said, “Good ! What were your special papers in PG ?” I had replied, “M'am, Linguistics and Teaching of English as a Foreign Language.”
Mrs. Ratnam “OK ! What were your other papers in PG ?”
My response : “Early Poetry, Plays, Novels, Criticism, Modern Poetry and Literary Essays.”
R. Mam           :           “Which was your favourite paper ?”
Me                   :           Mam I loved them all but my favourite was the second paper of Novels.
Mam                :           “Which novels did you have for your course?”
Me                   :           Mam, ‘Women : by D.H. Lawarence ‘Tom Jones’ by Henry Fielding                                               ‘Pride & Prejudice’ by Jane Austen and
Mam                :           “Which one did you like the most ?”
Me                   :           ‘Pride & Prejudice’
Mam                :           Name the two men around whom the story revolves.
Me                   :           Mr. Darcy and Mr. Bingley.
Mam                :           How many sisters were there ? Name the first two sisters.
Me                   :           Five sisters were there in the story.  Jane and Elizabeth.
Mam                :           Can you recall the beginning sentence of the novel ?
Me                   :           Not exactly.  But I can convey what it meant.
Mam                :           Yes, Please go ahead.
Me                   :           “In the first sentence Jane Austen mentions that a man in possession of                                           good wealth and name is in search of a good wife.”
Mam                :           Good ! Among all the novelists what attracted you towards Jane Austen ?
Me                   :           Description of country side story in simple words by Jane Austen attracted                                    me.  Right from page one the readers get glued to the story and look                                               forward to what will happen to the fate of all five sisters.  Moreover                                               inspite of having lived during the French Revolution time we don’t come                                       across any mention of it in her writings. This had made it more appealing to me.
After this Ratnam Mam had asked me a few Grammar related questions which I had answered  to the best of my knowledge.
Mr. R.S. Lugani had asked we to wait outside.
I had thanked all members and had come out.
As the day had progressed I got to meet other candidates among whom I’m able to recall only the ones who were selected on that day for joining DPS Korba like Mrs. Renu Jain, Mr. Sudhir Khare (for Hindi), Mr. Christopher (as office hand) and Mr. Ajay Jha (for Music).
We had to spend the whole day in the school campus itself.  During lunch time we were guided by the office staff Mr. Negi and Mr. Kotwal towards Indian Coffee House of Pragati Nagar.
After having ovr lunch Ajay had taken me to the classroom in which he was staying.  I had found him to be very down to earth and an interesting man to know.
Slowly we observed the crowd of candidates was getting reduced.  Candidates were appearing for their interviews and leaving.  Only a handful like me were asked to wait.
I was recalled inside Principal’s chamber somewhere around 9:15 pm.
After entering I had wished all the members, “Good Evening”, and had waited for their response.  Mr. R.S. Lugani had once again offered me the seat and had straight away asked, “Mr. Thaper ! What if we select you what is the salary that will suit you ?”
I was not prepared for the question.  I was not very familiar with the salary pattern. So I had responded by saying, “Sir, in the advertisement it is mentioned Rs. 1260/- basic so that will suit me.”  He had again said, “No tell us what minimum pay will be acceptable to you.”  I had said, “Getting the job is my priority and not the salary part.  However since you are asking let me tell you that as a student in Cuttack I used to receive Rs. 400/- to Rs. 500/- from my Dad for my monthly expenses.  If you give me around Rs. 1000/- it will be quite enough for me.”  I remember this had made Mr. Lugani laugh and he had said, ‘OK, Don’t worry you will get more than your expectation.”  He had told to Mr. Mahesh Bareja in my presence itself to put me on PRT regular scale, GM of NTPC Korba (I’m not able to recall his name) had asked, “Mr. Tahper when can you join us ?” I had replied “Sir whenever I’m asked to.” He had said, “Tomorrow we are reopening the school after summer break.  Can you join us from tomorrow ?”
I had said, “No Sir, Please give me some time so that I can come prepared.” He had said, “So we are asking you.  Within how many days can you join us ?” I had immediately said, “Sir I will join from 1st July 1987.”  Mr. M. Bareja had said, “OK, we will wait for you on 1st of July.  Before you leave submit one of your original certificates in the office.” I had said, “Sir if you say I can leave my whole file.” He had said, “No, one certificate will do.”
Mr. R.S. Lugani had said, “One last question, given an opportunity would you like to join DPS R.K. Puram, New Delhi ?”  I had said, “Cost of living in Delhi is very high.  Within this salary it may be difficult.”
Mr. Lugani had said, “You join here and after couple of months come over to DPS R.K. Puram, and then let me know.”
I had said, “Yes Sir,  I will surely do that.”
At this Mr. Bareja had said, “You may leave now.”
Mrs. Ratnam had said, “See you on 1st July.”
I had said, “Sure.”
I had thanked everyone and had wished them good night and had come out of the chamber.
I had straight away gone to Mr. Kotwal and with lot of enthusiasm had handed over my Class X original marksheet for his safe keeping.  His response was something like, “Oh ! So you have been trapped.”
I had said, “Pardon Sir, I didn’t get you !”
At this he had smiled and had said, “ I’m just joking.  They have asked you to leave your original so that you would return. “
I had said, “That I’m sure to do.  You may keep my whole file.  It will be rather good for me.  I won’t have to carry it all the way to Vishakapatnam and then again bring it back.”
He had said, “No please submit one certificate itself.”
I had done so and with lots of happiness had left the campus for Korba.
I had reached the hotel around 10:30 pm. Had changed my dress and had decided to take ‘Kurla Express’ at 1:00 am from Champa for Raipur.
Before leaving for Champa I had gone towards the house of Mr. Singh (of Singh Enterprises) to return the turban. But the house had a big iron gate which was closed.  I had not woken them and decided to return the turban in July.  However, I had dropped a written note of thanks in their letter box and had left for Champa.
I could manage to get into the Sleeper Class of the train and had reached Raipur early in the morning around 6:00 am and had gone straight to Guru Nanak Nagar to my Buaji’s (father’s sister’s) house.
(28.09.2015 – 10:10 pm) 

Sunday, September 20, 2015

How Had I Reached DPS Korba

On the basis of my application forwarded from Vellore, while I was there alongwith my Jijaji who had to undergo brain tumor surgery, I had received the call letter for the interview to be held on 17th June 1987. I had completed my PG and was preparing for my CS.  I had opted for Public Administration and Psychology. For Public Administration I was totally dependent on books available in the market.  But for Psychology I was fortunate to get to know the HOD of Psychology Andhra University.  I’m unable to recall his full name but we used to call him Babla Sir. He used to like me a lot.  He had given me direct access to the Library of Andhra University.
The day I had informed Babla Sir about my interview he was disappointed.  That very evening I was surprised to see him at my home when I had returned from my evening walk on the beach.
He was advising my father for not sending me for the interview.  He had said, “if Sukhwant joins teaching he will not be able to pass CS.”
My Dad had left the decision to me.  He said, “If you want to go to Delhi for Rao’s tutorials for IAS then you can do so.”
But from within I was aware of the fact that after the gutting of our shop in Jeypore as an aftermath of 84 riots our financial position was not good.  Hence I had decided to attend the interview so that I could start earning.
I had left Vishakhapatnam on 15th night by Chattisgarh Express and had reached Raipur early next morning. From Raipur I had taken a train at around 10:00 am and had reached Champa at around 1:00 pm.  It was extremely hot and humid.  I learnt that for reaching Korba I had to travel another 40 odd kms by either taxi or bus.
As taxis were not available I had got into a state bus.  The bus was already over crowded.  I could manage to get a standing space behind the driver’s seat. I had thought that the journey would take about an hour or so. But I was totally wrong. The road was extremely bad.  We reached Korba bus stand at around 3:00 pm.  By the time I got down from the bus I was totally drenched in sweat.  When I had tried to look around my eyes caught the shop banner of ‘Singh Enterprises’ and I could see a young Sikh of around 25-30 years sitting inside.  So I went inside the shop and had asked, “Please guide me towards DPS Korba.” The young man had said, “DPS Korba is another 14 kms away, and asked ,”May I know the purpose of your visit ?”  He also extended a seat to me and ordered his salesman, “Give a glass of water, and turn the cooler towards him.”  I had replied to him by saying, “I have come to appear in the interview in DPS Korba.”  Mr. Singh was extremely happy and he immediately ordered his salesman to fetch sugarcane juice for me.  He advised me to stay in a lodge in Korba itself and leave for DPS Korba which was situated in Pragatinagar next morning.
After drinking the sugarcane juice I had thanked him and had taken his leave.  He had again asked his salesman to lift my bag and to reach me in ‘Anand Lodge’ which was situated within the bus stand campus itself.  I was by that time, totally drained out of energy.  I had got into the room had taken bath, and had gone out to have lunch.  In the evening I had again gone to ‘Singh Enterprises’ Shop.
This time Mr. Singh’s brother-in-law, who was from Kanpur, was also there.  We spoke for a long time and he had taken me to the nearby Gurudwara for evening Rehraas.
He showed me his house also. Before bidding me good night he said, “May I ask you something personal if you don’t mind ?” I had said, “Veerji please ask”. He had said . “Will you attend your interview in Patka or you will wear turban ?” I had replied by saying that  as I’m not able to fold the turban myself without someone’s help I had not brought a turban with me.”  To this he had said, “I will come to your hotel room early in the morning and bring a turban of my own and will help you to fold it and tie.”  This he had done the next morning for which I had thanked him from the core of my heart and after taking my breakfast had left by an auto for DPS Korba, Pragatinagar, a place that was going to change my life for years to come.
(19.09.2015)


Friday, September 18, 2015

How Did I Apply for Teacher's Post


In 1986 after having completed my PG in English from Ravenshaw College, Cuttack Odisha I was seriously preparing for the CS.
An unfortunate event had taken place in the family.  My Jijaji Mr. Jasbir Singh was diagnosed to be suffering from brain tumour due to which he used to get attacks of convulsions.  My sister Manjeet Kaur and Jijaji had got married in 1981.  They were blessed with a boy in 1985 (Varinder Singh).
As the convulsions were getting severe we had to rush Jijaji to CMC Vellore.  It was at Vellore that the Doctors (Neurosurgeons) had conveyed to us that he had a brain tumour and had advised for an immediate surgery for the removal of tumour.  Jijaji’s father, S. Jagat Singhji (Darji), my sister Manjeet Kaur, my one year old nephew Varinder Singh (Vicky), our Dad Gurmukh Singh and me were there with Jijaji.
Jijaji was very adamant in not getting himself operated because this would need to shorn his hair which is not permissible in Sikhism.
Coincidently one Mr. Chatwal uncle from Korba, MP was also there in Vellore for his wife’s kidney treatment. Being Sikhs and due to meeting at a far off  place in South we had come close to each other. Darji, Chatwal uncle and my Dad used to council Jijaji for getting himself operated.
Fortunately one of the Neurosurgeons Dr. J.P. Singh was also a Sikh. He also used to council my Jijaji for undergoing the operation.
With lots of persuasion and pressure from all corners finally Jijaji had undergone the operation.  Unfortunately the biopsy report conveyed that the tumour was malignant for which Jijaji had to undergo chemotherapy for about three months. Jijaji was admitted in the hospital and we all used to live in a hotel nearby.  My sister used to cook food for everyone.
One day while having breakfast Jijaji conveyed his desire to me for fresh coconut (green ones) water.  So while carrying his lunch I had stopped at a Pan Shop for purchasing two green coconuts.  Cost of the same was Rs. 4/-.  When I had given him Rs. 5/- note the shopkeeper had expressed his difficulty in returning Rs. 1/-.  When I had looked around I had seen ‘The Employment News’ hanging from one of the wires.  I had bought it and had proceeded to the hospital.  I could get the opportunity of leafing through the ‘The Employment Newspaper’ after about 5 – 6 days of time.  My sister as preparing dinner and the Employment Newspaper was lying on one of the shelves. I had asked for it and had started going through it.  While doing so I had come across the advertisement of DPS Korba for teachers post. The advertisement had appealed to me for two reasons.  First was the brand of DPS and second was the place, Korba, because of Chatwal uncle belonging to that place.


Till that time I had never applied for any post.  So I was little excited. One of the posts advertised was for English PRT but it needed the candidate to be a PG with B.Ed and one had to apply along with Xerox of all educational qualifications certificates.  Inspite of neither being a B.Ed nor in possession of certificates I had purchased plain paper of A4 size from the same Pan Shop and had applied for the post of PRT (English).  I had written a very simple application wherein I had mentioned my position of being in Vellore and also regarding my inability to send Xerox copies of my certificates.  However I had sent my Bio Data because I remembered all my marks at all levels.
I had assured in my letter that if called for the interview I would put across all my originals.
 After Jijaji was discharged from CMC Vellore we all had returned to our places.
One fine day when I was sitting at home in Vishakapatnam our business partner Jagdish had come from Jeypore.  He gave me a sealed envelope of DPS Korba which carried a call letter for the interview on June 17th 1987 at Korba.  I was both surprised and excited.  Surprised because I was seriously not expecting to get any response because of not being a B.Ed and also for not having sent any Xerox copies of my certificates.  I was excited for the obvious reason of appearing in the interview.
(18.09.2015)



Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Nelson Mandela’s 8 Lessons of Leadership

Courage is not the absence of fear—it’s inspiring others to move beyond it.
Having worked with many leaders over the years, I’ve always been exceedingly aware that there are really only two kinds—those who appear to have everything in control and, and those who actually spend very little time controlling anything, because they’re too busy moving people forward by example. Real leaders admit their fears, but are not crippled by them. Their sense of resolve and clarity about future goals keeps them from being bogged down in legalism and angst. They DO, and they ARE, and that’s enough.
Lead from the front—but don’t leave your base behind.
One leader I know (inspired by Steve Jobs) always tells his students to, “Connect the dots, but don’t forget any of the dots that are behind you—they are just as important as the ones that are in front of you.” How many leaders do you know who focus all their attention on the future and completely forget about what got them to where they are. This is one of the most dangerous mistakes that a leader can make, and I have been both guilty of it, and the victim of it. You too! Admit it!
Lead from the back—and let others believe they are in front.
Humility is at the core of good leadership. People are usually willing to follow someone who they believe has their back—someone more interested in them, than in themselves. I love the affirmation model. You can never affirm enough, and, no, you won’t spoil people by saying you think they’re wonderful! The more you are the affirmer, the more the affirmed will take the initiative and move the initiative forward. If this doesn’t work—move them on to someplace else—but, please, not to my church. ?
Know your enemy—and learn about his favorite sport. 
Remember the old saying, “A little knowledge is a dangerous thing.” Well, the truth is that a little knowledge can be an exceptionally helpful thing. Here’s a short list of stuff you might want to know in order to undermine potentially negative relationships:
• What’s your enemies favorite sport and how much do you know about that activity that might break up conversational intrigue. Mandela didn’t like Rugby, but he knew all about it because South African elitists and political enemies all seemed to love the game.
• Do you remember your enemy’s kids names? Hey, you love my kids, I love you!
• What does your enemy take in his coffee? Sure, it’s a bribe, but you shouldn’t be above it!
Keep your friends close—and your rivals even closer. I’m opposed to this kind of thinking, but have utilized it most of my life. If you don’t want to get run over by a big, honkin’ SUV, run next to it—not in front of it!
Appearances matter—and remember to smile.
Why is it that some leaders don’t think the rules apply to them? Well, in addition to  blatant narcissism, leaders sometimes forget that they were given leadership, they didn’t just wake up having it one day. Earn respect by showing respect! Remember, it was others who placed you in charge. Dress and carry yourself as though you appreciate that fact.

Nothing is black or white. 

So, if things are really shades of gray, does that mean you’re not a Christian? No, God gave us shades of gray so we would have real choices to make. He’s not a cosmic school teacher or traffic cop who is ready to slap our hand if we make a mistake. He came to earth because he expected us to make mistakes. Own those, and let the rest of it go.
Quitting is leading too.
Would you be offended if I quoted Kenny Rogers here? You absolutely need to know when to “fold ‘em!” Here are some responses to conflict that inform and lead others. They might also tick people off, so be careful!
• I’m dropping out of this project because my skills don’t match your needs. You should probably find a _________________ to help you.
• I’m going to bow out of this endeavor now because I believe this is not the time to pursue this agenda.
• I’m going to turn down your request for help because, to be truthful, I don’t agree with your position on this matter.

All of these sentences could be used to lead while excusing yourself from the folly of being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Like, your current job…

The 10 Commadments of Budha for a Good Leader


1.      Dana                      *             Charity, Generosity and Liberality
2.       Sila                         *             Moral character
3.       Pariecaga             *             Sacrificing everything for the good of the people
4.       Ajjava                   *             Honesty, Integrity and Sincerity
5.       Maddava             *             Kindness and Gentleness
6.       Tapa                      *             Austerity, Self-control and Simple life
7.       Akhoda                *             Freedom from hatred, Ill will and anger
8.       Avihimsa              *             Non-violence and promoting peace
9.       Khanti                   *             Patience, forbearance, tolerance & understanding

10.   Avirodha              *             Non opposition i.e. , ruling in harmony with his people

Solaah Shringaar (16 Ways of Making Oneself Attractive)

1.   Sakal Such                   - Keeping all parts of body clean and healthy
2.   Manjan                        - Applying pastes to keep the skin clean
3.   Amal Bastra                - Wearing good clothes
4.   Karpad Raag                - Applying mehndi/ heena on hands
5.   Kesh Shoba                  -  Keeping the hair clean
6.   Ang Raag                     - Applying perfume
7.   Bhukann                       - Wearing Ornaments
8.   Mukh Baas                   - Using mouth freshener
9.   Mukh Raag                   - Keeping teeth clean
10. Lochan                         - Killing looks from the eyes
11. Anjit Netra                   - Applying mascara
12. Manch Bhakann           - Uttering sweet words
13. Manj Haas                    - To remain happy through laughter
14. Chit Chaatri                  - Remaining attentive
15. Chalan Chaar                - Walking attractively
16. Patibrat Paalan              - Staying faithful